Deselect ListView Item

I have a userform that has a listview in it. In the listview i have bunch of icons with names. I have it where if you double click on the icon, you will see a msg. box which you need to press ok and the box will go away. After you press ok the icon is still selected. I would like to be able to deselect the icon when you click on the listview box (in the white space away from the icon). I tried everything and no matter what i do, I cant deselect the icon. It is either highlighted or has a outline around it (little dots around the icon). This means that i can double click anywhere in the listview box and the and the msg. box will pop up.

All I want is when i double click the item, the msg. box should come up and when I click away from the icon (click in the white space) the icon should be completely deselected.